Love and Reality

LOVE and REALITY. They are perfectly different.. pretty much different. Love is like a fantasy, full of happy endings. Well reality is reality, something that surely is hurtful you cannot escape from it.

Perfect lovers do exist only in dramas. The plot is like having two lovers then there's this guy or girl trying to get into the picture and ruin their relationship then there's the climax thing and slowly they'll walk through their usual path.. HAPPY ENDING. Cool huh? But that doesn't exist in reality. It never will.

We must not expect that everything will fall to the way we want it to be. Sometimes, what we don't want to happen really happens like you are being tricked by your fate. But who's to be blamed? You. Yourself of course  Because you expect too much, you believe so much in happy endings. In this cruel world, happiness only exists when you're contented. And humans are naturally dissatisfied to everything. They expect. They demand. This is what I have learned from everything I've been through. I had so much faith in the word "love" that it can conquer all and that it's going to be forever no matter what. And then I was wrong. I fell too much from it. Maybe I rushed things before. Maybe it's not yet the time for true love if it really does exist. The point is, this is reality. Reality is the truth and love is just an illusion that does not last any longer. Especially when you are younger, it's not a matter of finding the perfect person but it's just who you find last in the perfect time. So why rush things? Why fall in love now when you knew that it will end soon. We only settle down with one person because when we reach 30's or 40's, we will think that we are a bit older to be childish to do what we used to do during our youthful days (mingling with anyone of opposite sex or whoever). That is why if you think it is the right time to settle down, it's just up to what time and who the person you're last mingling with on that time. And there he/she is. The last person may be your last, but he/she is not really the perfect one.

Out of trust, hope and love which is the most important one? It's loyalty. It's not the love that makes any couple last long, it's just loyalty. Maybe that's the real deal here. It's just loyalty.